Happiness & Prosperity (Part 5)

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This post is the Fifth in a series. I recommend you begin with #1
"Happiness & Prosperity – It’s No Secret - Introduction"

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 Personal Characterizations

When I was the owner and CEO of several nationally accredited adult education schools, I noticed that many students whom I assessed as having normal or above average intelligence, appeared to have great difficulty learning in one area or another. After much research and experimentation I was able to see the root of the problem. I wrote several papers and revised the curriculum of several courses. After adding the new curriculum and working with the instructors I was able to greatly reduce the mental blocks many students had.

Over time I was surprised to see the simple ideas we used for removing these mental blocks also had a profound influence on the students personal lives. In seeing themselves differently and becoming more effective in the way they learned, the lessons stayed with them and began to transform other areas of their lives. They learned more about themselves and what they learned begins with our following step.

Step Three - List your good and bad qualities

Make a list of all your good and bad qualities. On a piece of paper or on your computer, make two columns. At the top of one column write “Good” and on the other “Bad”. Then just begin listing all the things you know are good or bad about you. Put down as many as you can think of right away, but it’s ok if you keep adding to the list over days or weeks. (I’d be interested to know what your voice is chattering about right now!) Don’t skip this step; it’s one of the most important. As we continue, what you learn about yourself will help give you great peace in your life. Dig deep and don’t worry about what others might think. You don’t have to show it to anyone, and no one has to agree with what you think.

Some people have a hard time with this, so I’ve made a list of some characterizations to help you get started. (See below) Many of these characterizations are interchangeable and you can put them in the good column, the bad column, or both. You can also add phrases or sentences that describe your good and bad characteristics. You can use things like: “Not good at computers”, “I’m a Geek” (Remember - good or bad) “can’t draw a straight line”, “I’m too short (tall/fat/skinny/bald/hairy/etc.)”, “nobody likes me”, “everybody loves me”.  While you could look at the list and choose every word and apply it to yourself, that wouldn’t be useful. What is needed are the main characteristics that define who you are. The most important ones may not be obvious because they are such an integral part of your everyday life. Imagine some critical moment of brutal honesty when you are required to say who you are, what are your good points and where have you been weak. Write it down.

Extra Credit Exercise

For anyone looking for a little insurance, an extra edge in finding peace, happiness and prosperity, here is an extra credit exercise. Write a short autobiography. One to three pages is great, or do more if you like. This isn’t for publication; so don’t worry about grammar, punctuation, and neatness. Write a short story about your life.

Examples of how we characterize ourselves and others

A failure Aggressive Agitated Airhead Always Right Ambitious Annoying Antagonistic Anxious Apt Arbitrary Arrogant Awkward Boring Brazen Brutal Callous Careless Conceited Corrupt Cowardly Cruel Devious Disgusting Dishonest Domineering Drab Dumb Egotist Emotional Evil Faint-hearted Fat Fickle Foolish Garish Greedy Hypocritical Immoral Incompetent Inept Irritable Jealous Lazy Loose naughty

Mean Merciless Messy Miserly Monotonous Nasty Obstinate Out of Shape Overbearing Overweight Perverse Plump Pretentious Quick Tempered Reckless Rich Rude Sad Sadistic Sarcastic Self-Centered Selfish Shallow Sinful Sordid Spiteful Spoiled Stingy Stuffy Stupid Sullen Thoughtless Timid Un-ethical Unfair Ungrateful Unscrupulous Vain Vicious Vulgar Wealthy

Adventurous Agile Agreeable Altruistic Ambitious Amiable Angelic Attentive Attractive Audacious Brave Caring Charitable Civilized Compassionate Competent Confident Conservative Courageous Courteous Creative Cunning Decent Dependable Desirable Devoted Dignified Disciplined Discrete Dynamic Eloquent Erotic Fair Fashionable Fortunate Friendly Generous Gifted Giving Glamorous Gracious Grateful Gutsy Handsome Happy

Healthy Helpful Honest Horny Hot Humane Humble Imaginative Ingenious Just Kind Liberal Loyal Lucky Magnificent Merciful Modest Neat Nurturing Passionate Patient Patriotic Polite Proud Prudent Pure Reliable Reputable Resolute Resourceful Rugged Sensuous Sexual Shrewd Sincere Skillful Skinny Spontaneous Stylish Suave Successful Thoughtful Thrifty Trustworthy Truthful